To Be Or Not To Be….the girl with the list?

Purple! More specifically lavender. If  I have to respond one more time to the question: What’s your favorite color?, I think I’m going to lose it. Imagine dating in your 30s and having to answer the same questions you answered as a teenager. Horrifying right? And don’t get me wrong, I understand how important itContinue reading “To Be Or Not To Be….the girl with the list?”

Sis, you are not milk….

Sis, please don’t ever forget, you are not milk. There isn’t an expiration date stamped on your side. There is far too much pressure being placed on you because of all the imaginary timelines. Timelines designed by others; for your life. But quite frankly, screw those timelines and even the guidelines. No one knows YOUContinue reading “Sis, you are not milk….”

Butterflies or Warning Signs? (Reasons you are dating the same person in a different body)

Let’s talk about the butterflies. Romance movies and novels teach us to believe the only way to know if we like/love a person is if we get that special feeling in our stomachs. The butterflies. Far too often we go into each new relationship in search of that feeling. But what happens when we becomeContinue reading “Butterflies or Warning Signs? (Reasons you are dating the same person in a different body)”

Blooming on Purpose

At the start of this year, I decided I would regularly buy myself flowers. I won’t say it was a resolution or that it even made it to my vision board. But, it has become a major part in me learning to become more intentional. I needed to learn to treat myself and do forContinue reading “Blooming on Purpose”

“Knowing is Half the Battle” (Things I wish I knew at the end of my marriage)

A few weeks ago, Facebook thought it was important to notify me of a special memory. This memory had received probably more likes than anything I’ve ever posted (and I have been on Facebook since the summer before going to college). Yes, that was 2007, and yes I am getting old. But anyway, the memoryContinue reading ““Knowing is Half the Battle” (Things I wish I knew at the end of my marriage)”